You just dont feel at home in your own appt. Trans & GNC I dont want to end things prematurely if he says he wants to keep dating me but at the same time I do not want to pursue something that he has already has a pessimistic viewpoint. While caught in this cacophony of conflicting thoughts, I went to a book fair with my boyfriend and a title caught my eye: The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans. What kind of a person does this to another while pretending to have any interest in or use for them at all???? He may have bad associations with talking a lot during sex, he may be embarrassed, or he may not have a conscious reason. [6] Try your best to practice patience and non-judgment when dealing with your boyfriend's quirks. we have been together for 2 years, everything was going perfectly fine until he randomly told me one night that he enjoys video games more than me. Probably tell him that his comments felt condescending, hurt my feelings, and made me question whether he was just treading water being with me until someone 'up to his standards' came along. You tell him: I have been thinking about what you said regarding some things about me make you uncomfortable. My boyfriend goes out all night and doesnt call or text me a My boyfriend ignores me to play video games how should I feel about this? Hes so over-committed to our relationship that it stifles me a bit. Please consult your doctor before taking any action. Maybe, yeah, he meant "It's not going anywhere, but I'll still bang you." And he said he understands. I was hurting him. If Im a bit late then theres a nagging voice in my head telling me to let him know and to explain why. Nelson explains that people with avoidant attachment issues typically feel uncomfortable with intimacy and expressions of emotion. He had manipulated me into advocating for him. Thanks in advance! Although he said that he still wants to continue dating, Im beginning to wonder if its all futile since he already made up his mind that my lack of world experience makes him uncomfortable. we have been together for 2 years, everything was going perfectly fine until he randomly told me one . We have a good relationship and a deep emotional connection. I was in the middle of defending my boyfriends decision not to share any of the food in his house with me when my dad yelled, Snap out of it! Something clicked, and I realized I had been upset about all these things, too, before my partner convinced me they were no big deal. Wardecker BM, Chopik WJ, Moors AC, Edelstein RS. //